Someone said something to me tonight and it really got me to thinking... I was talking to this guy and we were talking about pro life and pro choice and all that, and this statement came out of his mouth..."If I ever got a girl pregnant I would probably kill myself because it would pretty much be the end of my life anyway..." What the hell? these words rang so hard in my mind I felt compelled to write about it.
This person was so disgusted with the idea of getting someone he had been with pregnant that he would go as extreme as saying he would kill himself. Now, I highly doubt that that would be the case, but just think about that for a minute. Him bringing another life into this world would be so scary and so life ending for him, that he would rather be dead. Now, I'm all about the fact that I am definitely not ready to bring another life into this world, I can barely take care of myself, yet alone another human being. But that seems like a total load of crap to me.
Now, this whole conversation leads flawlessly back into the same stupid point that I keep making in this blog. That human beings are basically the scum of the earth these days. Ya, having a baby at this point would suck, hard! But maybe you should think about not sleeping around and fucking everything that moves if your that scared of the risk you take. If you like this person enough to sleep with them, then what should be so hard about raising a child with them? Its not the expense a baby brings or the fact that your in charge of another life, that's so scary, it s COMMITMENT! What is so hard about this concept? You meet someone, you like them enough to become that intimate with them, yet committing is nearly impossible now a days. o one wants to be stuck with one person for the rest of their lives. And I get that its scary, and its hard. But its life! Suck it up!
uugghhh... this frustrates me to no end. And there doesn't seem to be a stop to it anytime soon. Screw this crazy world...
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